Power house seems to have great reviews and they have a contest Thursday nights.
I don't mind being hit on as long as it's not too creepy. If you don't like dive bars, I would definitely avoid the Eagle and Powerhouse. To be honest, I'm not a huge fan of any of the ones you listed, but I don't hang out in the Castro or SOMA much these days anyway, so my opinion probably doesn't hold much water. At its meeting January 25 the supervisors' land use and transportation committee unanimously voted 3-0 in support of having the city's historic preservation commission. Just so you know, SOMA is MUCH grungier and 'anything goes' than most of the Castro, so don't be shocked to find people being pretty open/hands on (if you catch my drift). The members of a San Francisco supervisors' panel are recommending that their colleagues start the process to landmark a gay-owned bar in the city's South of Market district. Badlands and Toad Hall are probably the closest to what you're looking for, or maybe the Cafe. From what you described, it sounds like you're looking more for a nightclub type of vibe than a dive bar/watering hole, and there really aren't a whole lot of great options imo. Honestly, just wander around the Castro and pop your head in to different places to see if it's your type of scene. It really depends on what you're into (bears, twinks, latinos, asians, etc) and what type of scene you're looking for (night club, sex club, happy hour, neighborhood bar, dive bar, etc).
